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Sunday, August 4, 2019

The Blame Game Is A Game That Can Not Be Won.



"You must stop blaming God, and not blame any person. You must completely control your desire and shift your avoidance to what lies within your reasoned choice. You must no longer feel anger, resentment, envy or regret."

-Epictetus 

Man up. Woman up. Quit your bellyaching. You control who you are. Or do you let others do it for you? Are you swayed to and fro by the words of others, their opinion of you or by your position in life? Quit blaming everyone else. It is not the fault of the liberals or the conservatives, not the fault of the gays or the homophobes, the alt-right or the anti-fa. You are where you are because of you. This is most true in regards to your mental state. You can lose control of your physical freedom, but the freedom to mentally respond to such an event is entirely up to you. 

People want to change the world without ever first changing their mind. People demand the world correct itself, right itself without ever looking upon themselves in order that they might do the same. Focus only on what lies within your reach. Your health, mental and physical, your family and friends, your work employer and clients. Use reason when dealing with yourself and others. Do not be quick to anger, resentment, envy or regret, rather by patient and reason your way into self-assurance. The individual who constantly blames others is one who lacks self-assurance. The blame game is a game in which the blamer is always the loser.



Saturday, February 2, 2019

Learn, For The Lack There Of Leads Speedily To Death

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No one is complete of knowledge. Those that think they are are worthy of being held at a distance. The unwillingness to learn is a lie. To sin is to miss the mark you are aiming at, but to outright dismiss your target and shoot the person next to you is evil. I consider often the possibility that I might be wrong about somethings, that there is always something more for me to learn and that I should always be open to possibilities. I have experienced those that feel their knowledge is complete and they are often bitter, angry, volatile and alone. I do not want to be that person. I recently read about the extensive benefits of learning new things in regards to brain health. The more often you learn the more active your brain is and, like the body, the more you exercise it the healthier and younger it remains. Time seems to fly by as you age. The older you are the faster time goes by. As we grow older we tend to seek out new experiences less and less, practicing, rather, the same things habitually which makes time flow by faster because of less energy required to direct to new things. The young constantly undergo new things, new adventures new landscapes. The brain takes time to process and invest in what has just been received, what has just been learned. As our experiences become more familiar, more habitual, we need not exert as much energy processing, thus time goes by un-noticed.  Pressures of learning new things generally fall under time constraints or management. We are aware of time when we learn new things. We understand the time that we do not know, the time that we would like to know, the time that we are beginning to know and the time that we know. When what we know becomes habit it seemingly steps outside of time. Time flows by unbeknownst to us. The expression "Youth is wasted on the young" is wrong, youth is wasted on those that refuse to learn. If this really is true than death comes quickly to those that really do refuse to learn. Feeling old? Learn something new. Pick up a new book. Learn a new skill. Learn more about those closest to you. Learn who it is that walks their dog past your home. Learn who you really are. Learn, for those that believe their knowledge is complete may just be the devil. 

Saturday, June 23, 2018

You Can Do It


You could enjoy this very moment all the things you are praying to reach by taking the long way around-if you would stop depriving yourself of them. - Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 12.1 

What if I told you that we could have all that we desired right now? Let's ask ourselves, what is it that I want from position x y or z? What do I want from money, fame or power? Is it joy? Is it peace? Or is it love? Perhaps it is something else, but whatever it is that we desire, that we feel external things will provide us, we can already achieve. Why take the long route to get what we want when it already awaits us here and now. It is all in our choices. It really is that easy.

The most profound things are sometimes the simplest of things. 


Sunday, February 4, 2018

I Believe...

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(The Bible is pretty messed up at times, but than it calls us to something radical like loving one another, being humble and telling us to watch our damn mouths. Yes, people pick and choose the verses they like and those they do not, but when have we ever fully accepted everything we have heard from another's lips or read from the pages of a book, or dare I say it.. seen on 'social media'. If we are even slightly honest with ourselves we would admit that we are, all of us, a little full of shit.)

I believe in marriage. I believe in the union of two consenting people committed to each other through hardship and good times. Whether man and woman, woman and woman, or man and man let them be married and let them be welded one to the other, ever striving to keep that bond joined. For a good read with similarities to this check out, The World We Create "The Art of Living"

Let them be married, I say, and let no one tear asunder. 



Saturday, December 2, 2017

Can You Escape?

Is it bad to want to escape? To check out from time to time? To shut down the ol' think machine?


For the love of God…No! 

It is not a bad thing to escape. It is not cowardly. It is not failure. It is the re-compositioning of an individual in order that they may return with courage and boldness to a world that can so often be unrelenting and unforgiving.

Escaping is wanting to retreat, from what ever it is that life has being throwing at you, in order to recuperate or just plain survive and thus renewing yourself in the process. To escape away from something solely because you wish not to do it is called avoidance. Avoidance will always find you retreating, while escaping will always find you returning. Those who wish to conquer will at times need to escape, however those who continually avoid will fail to acquire.

Do not allow escapism to turn into avoidance. 

 If you need renewal than quit avoiding escaping. Set aside time during each day to purposefully and intentionally shut down. Escape into another world and renew your mind. Whether you set a timer on how long you'll read or you set a limit of watching two episodes of your favourite Netflix series, know that this is your time to reboot. When your done be grateful for the break and go forth into the world and continue being intentional.



"I have claimed that Escape is one of the main functions of fairy-stories, and since I do not disapprove of them, it is plain that I do not accept the tone of scorn or pity with which “Escape”is now so often used: a tone for which the uses of the word outside literary criticism give no warrant at all. In what the misusers are fond of calling Real Life, Escape is evidently as a rule very practical, and may even be heroic. In real life it is difficult to blame it, unless it fails; in criticism it would seem to be the worse the better it succeeds. Evidently we are faced by a misuse  of words, and also by a confusion of thought. Why should a man be scorned if, finding himself in prison, he tries to get out and go home? Or if, when he cannot do so, he thinks and talks about other topics than jailers and prison-walls? The world outside has not become less real because the prisoner cannot see it. In using escape in this way the critics have chosen the wrong word,and, what is more, they are confusing, not always by sincere error, the Escape of the Prisoner with the Flight of the Deserter." - J.R.R.Tolkien